Christmas Mission

Those are not two words I usually think of together: "Christmas Mission."
Christmas Eve. Christmas shopping. Christmas pageants. Christmas presents. Christmas dinner. Christmas sales. Christmas trees. Christmas parties. Christmas cards. Christmas decorations.
Not "Christmas Mission." Not unless you hear someone say they are going to help feed the homeless on Christmas at the Mission—but how often do you hear that?
But isn't the Christmas story really a story about mission. And I don't mean Rudolph on a mission on a snowy night. I mean the story of an angel announcing to Zechariah that God is about to fulfill the prophecies and promises of old. The story of Mary learning that she will give birth to the Son of the Most High. The story that God entered this world as a light to the nations, to bring peace to those on whom God's favor rests, to save his people from their sins.
Christmas isn't just a story about a baby in a manger, and angels singing to shepherds, and wise men bringing gifts. It's really just a chapter (though certainly a heartwarming chapter) in a greater story of a God who was, and still is, on a mission in this world.
Christmas Eve services are a lovely tradition (our family attends one every year). But the risk Christians run at Christmas is the same risk Christians run every Lord's Day. Most church goers are at risk of thinking that the focus of our faith is our faith. Church is about what the leaders can do this week that will be meaningful to me. Whether the church we choose emphasizes liturgy or preaching or music, the critical issue seems to be whether it encourages and nourishes my faith. We measure church by the quality of the experience. In short, church is about me (at least, that seems to be how we often evaluate it).
But isn't the focus of our faith really God's work in this world? Isn't the Lord's Day really about remembering the mission of God that took Jesus to the cross and brought him out of the tomb? Shouldn't we be more concerned about whether church services stir us to follow Jesus on his mission in this world?
And isn't that really what should lie at the heart of our observance of Christmas? Shouldn't Christmas call us to be light in the darkness around us? To be as concerned for the poor as is the Son of God who slept in a feed trough? To be voices of peace in the middle of all the strife? To be friends with the people Jesus came to save? To be on God's mission in this world?
Maybe Christmas at the Mission is closer to the heart of the story than most of what we do—whether at the holidays or on Sundays.
Maybe a good question we could each ask is this:
To what mission is Christmas calling me this year?

Black Friday Week???

I got an email ad this week from a retailer with this subject line:

"It's Black Friday Week! Get Started With These Great Offers."

Really? "Black Friday Week"? Has it come to that? Not only has our commercialized Christmas overwhelmed everything from Labor Day to New Year's Day, but now we are renaming Thanksgiving after a shopping day!

Ok. I know some of you who know me recognize this as my annual holiday rant. But the fact that I'm ranting doesn't change the fact that this is just simply disturbing. Predictable? Probably. Inevitable? Maybe. Pitifully materialistic? Definitely.

And the fact that I'm now working with a non-profit for inner city kids, trying to raise money so they can have something for Christmas, has nothing to do with it. Neither does the fact that I feel a little guilty about living in a brand new house that's nicer than we deserve, and we just helped a poor neighbor with her family's Thanksgiving meal. Neither does that fact that I already feel guilty for how much of a glutton I'm going to be tomorrow. Nor the fact that my car and laptop are both dying and I can afford to replace them both and still buy Christmas presents for all my family.

The only relevant fact is that a season once devoted to thanksgiving, and generosity, and penitence, and celebration of the advent of our Savior is now just one huge, seemingly endless, exercise in consumerism and self-indulgence.

If you are as disturbed by all this as I am, and concerned about the impact on your family, and feeling a little guilty too, then you might check out the Advent Conspiracy for ideas for a meaningful season. (Or, if you'll pardon the shameless plug, check out the Y.E.S. Christmas Store.)

Have a Happy Thanksgiving! And if you must venture out into the shopping madness on Friday, perhaps you might shine a little brightness into the blackness by following John the Baptist's advice and "if you have two coats, share with someone who has none; and if you have food, do the same."

I'm through ranting now.

Jerks for Jesus

What is it that leads some Christians to believe that acting like a jerk is something that Jesus would want them to do in his name, or in gatherings of his people, or…well, anytime, anywhere?
The latest hoopla over preachers threatening to burn the Quran is just one more example in a list that I think must upset God about as much as rereading a list of the kings of Israel and Judah. And if you have any doubt at all whether it was a good idea, even after everyone from the President to General Petraeus to a host of religious leaders was pleading with them not to, consider this one simple question:
Can you honestly picture Jesus daring to burn anyone's religious books unless they agreed to debate him?
Did you even have to stop and think about it?
How is it that people can claim to follow Jesus and then openly, blatantly, brazenly do something they know he would not do? I don't mean, how do followers of Jesus sin, or make mistakes in judgment, or arrive at wrong conclusions on a variety of topics? I mean, how do Christians in a premeditated manner, with malice aforethought, stand up in public and intentionally do something they must know he would never do?
How do they sit in a restaurant and humiliate a waitress for making a mistake and then stiff her on the tip? How do they walk up to an elder after church and chew his ear off because they don't like the song choice that Sunday? How do they pass on inflammatory emails that degrade and slander public officials whose political views they do not share? How do they refuse, on Easter morning, to shake hands with someone with whom they have a disagreement? How do they stage protests at a funeral? How do they go to a town hall meeting or campaign speech and shout and scream and refuse to give someone a chance to speak? How do they sit at a baptism and whistle, not because they are so excited they have to celebrate, but because they are upset that others are clapping? (And no, I did not make any of those up.)
There are all sorts of reasons why I would not want to do any of these things, but one of the best reasons is simply the Golden Rule (you remember that cute little saying of Jesus we all learned in Sunday School). I wouldn't burn a Quran because I wouldn't want someone else to burn a Bible. I wouldn't chew someone's ear off after church, because I wouldn't want someone to do it to me. I wouldn't spread slander about someone else because I wouldn't…well, you get the point. When Jesus said to treat others the way we want to be treated, I think he actually meant for us to live that way. I really don't think he had any desire to launch a movement of Jerks for Jesus.
But maybe an even better reason not to do such things is just plainly and simply because Jesus wouldn't do them.
Christians trying to be like Jesus—is that really such a radical idea?

Tent-making (or something like it)

This summer I have been looking for a part-time job I could do that would give me a more interactive presence in the community. Just as Paul had a job in the marketplace, many missional church planters look for work in the community. It increases opportunities to interact with people, and helps unbelievers relate with us better than they might with a "preacher." And since in a missional church plant you don't start up with a hundred or so in a Sunday service the way you would in an attractional church plant, you don't have very many people tithing either. Having a second job helps reduce salary costs for the church.
I was applying to become a substitute school teacher this fall, because that would connect me with principals and teachers and others in the central city. I may still do that in the winter. However, a door suddenly opened for me to serve as the interim executive director for Youth Encouragement Services, a wonderful Christian ministry to inner-city children. I have been serving on their board, and Judy and I have been planning to partner with them in our new church. So this was a natural fit that overlapped well with the work we are trying to do. I will serve about 30 hours a week for Y.E.S. for 4-6 months, and continue working at least 20-30 hours a week for the church.
We were excited and grateful for this surprising opportunity. The timing really seems to us a "God-thing." It makes me wonder what the next surprise will be!

What Does a Church Planter Do?—Part 2

I apologize for the lapse in posting blogs. I know it has left many of you with an empty space in your life. I'd offer excuses related to two weeks fighting gall bladder disease (I'm doing great now) and two weeks traveling in the Middle East without a computer (it was a great trip). But excuses won't fill that empty space, so let me try and offer something more interesting.

In an earlier post answering the question "what does a church planter do until he has a church?" I shared some of the many tasks on the to-do list of planters. However, the work we're involved in is about much more than task lists (I still wonder how the Apostle Paul functioned without project management software!). So, what else does a church planter do at this stage of the work?

One important part of any church planting effort is fundraising. That involves preparing materials that explain the mission we are called to. We are working on a new brochure that we hope to have ready to mail by the end of this month. It also involves meetings, calls, prayer, and planning. The fundraising has been going well, but there is still much to be done.

Another key part of planting a new church is connecting with various community leaders, non-profit organizations, and ministries already working in the community. I've met a couple of times with the manager of the housing project in our community. We are excited about the possibilities for serving the residents there. We've also connected well with the local elementary school and look forward to helping impact the lives of the children. We're getting to know a variety of charities and non-profits working in the downtown area. Recently I was invited to attend a breakfast for Conexion Americas, an impressive organization that promotes "the social, economic and civic integration of Latino families into the Middle Tennessee community." (I actually got to sit at the table with the mayor—but he was on the other side of the big table and we didn't get to talk.) Almost every week, I am told of another good organization or hard-working community servant I need to meet. The possibilities for cooperating to improve the lives of people are very exciting!

Most important, though, is connecting with the people who live where we will live. One reason we chose the Hope Gardens neighborhood is that it has an active neighborhood association, a very positive spirit of cooperation, and a growing level of social interaction including a community garden and regular gatherings in the neighborhood park. We've been attending the neighborhood meetings and gatherings and already know more people in our new neighborhood than we know in the neighborhood where we have lived the last 6 years. (That strikes me with both a sense of excitement for life in the days ahead, but also a sense of shame for the isolated way we experienced life in the suburbs.) Ultimately, our mission is to form relationships, to spend time with people as Jesus did, to be involved enough in their lives to know their needs and love them.

This summer we are actively looking for people to join us in this effort. We are networking with churches, campus ministries, and individuals to connect with Christians who have a heart for living as followers of Jesus in the city. Just yesterday we spent time with a young couple who came through town to learn more about the city and our work here. While it's too soon to know if they will move here, it is exciting to be with people who are excited about what God is calling us to do. Pray with us that God will connect us with people who have a passion for God's mission in this world.

What Does a Church Planter Do Before He Has a Church?

Most church goers probably think they have a basic idea of what a preacher does: sermon preparation, hospital visits, studying, staff meetings, elders meetings, counseling, planning, and so on. But, I know many of you must be wondering, "What exactly does a church planter do before he has a church?" There's no sermon prep when there are no sermons. No hospital visits or counseling until you have members. No staff or elders meetings.

So what does a church planter do (besides writing blogs about what he does)?

Planting churches has become something of a science. There are books and seminars and organizations and even academic programs devoted to the subject. They have the process worked out so thoroughly that there is actually web-based project management software that spells out everything that needs to be done from the decision to plant a church through the launch of the first public worship service. The various tasks and projects—all 286 of them!—are organized into various categories with important milestones marked along the way, all with due dates assigned and recommended reading. I even have a coach who just works with me on the tasks laid out in the software.

These tasks include training, such as going to "boot camp" (we went to two of them in January) and to the national church planting conference last month, visiting other church plants, and lots of reading (I wish I was a speed reader!). They include weekly phone conversations with my church planting coach, bi-weekly calls with the project management coach, and monthly meetings with a management team (representatives of the churches and ministries supporting us). The tasks include big projects like developing the church planting model we will use, networking with community leaders, designing promotional materials for fundraising and recruiting, and forming a prayer team. They also include all sorts of smaller but necessary tasks, such as filing incorporation papers with the state, getting a post office box, and buying an all-in-one printer/fax/copier.

So far, according to the project dashboard, I've completed 170 of the tasks (59.4%) and I'm only overdue on 10 (3.5%) of them (not too bad since I just lost 2 weeks to a conference and a cruise—and besides, 2 of them aren't really my fault!). That means I only have 116 tasks to go…

A Letter to the Donelson Church of Christ

Rob and Judy on St. Thomas in the U.S. Virgin Islands

Dear Friends at Donelson,

I am sitting on the balcony of our cabin on the Emerald Princess, looking out over the beautiful, calm Caribbean Sea, and thinking about how grateful I am to all of you for the gift of this cruise. (Judy is grateful, too. She's sleeping in and enjoying the gentle motion of the ship.) This is our last day at sea, and unless we stowaway, we'll return home tomorrow.

The cruise has been wonderful in so many ways. The getaway has been refreshing and just what we needed as we prepare for the months ahead in the new work. The time together has been like a second honeymoon, an early celebration of our 30^th anniversary later this summer. The scenery has been inspiring as we have witnessed the incredible beauty of God's creation. We have been pampered, entertained, and overfed beyond what any human being deserves!

We've also encountered many reminders of why we are setting out on our new course of ministry—the stories we've heard from passengers and crew, the incredible economic disparity between the tourists who invade the islands on shopping excursions and the inhabitants who call the beauty and poverty of the islands "home," and the daily encounters with the lifestyles and conduct of those not following the way of the kingdom of God. I've tried to avoid anything that felt like work this week—but it is hard to be around so many people and not think about our call to become friends of those with whom Jesus became friends.

The cruise has been a marvelous experience, and we just want to say "thank you" again for this very generous gift.

But more than that, we want to say "thank you" for the past 7 years at Donelson. You have encouraged us and loved us and supported us, and we will always love you. We still consider you our church family even though we aren't with you very often right now. Serving this church has been a blessing. You have invited us into very special and sacred moments in your lives. At times I've been among the first to hold your newborn children and at other times I've been at the bedside of your parents as they took their last breath, and so much in between. And in turn, many of you celebrated our daughter's wedding with us and stood beside us when Judy's father passed away. Because you are our family, we want you to know that we look forward to continuing to share such moments of life with you. Our new home will only be 15 minutes away and you can call on us any time we can help in any way. And we know we can do the same. I may not be your preacher, but we will always be family.

I also want to say a special thank you to those who served daily with me as ministers and staff. It was a joy to serve alongside people who were not just coworkers, but friends. I already miss our lunches at Casa or Lenny's—sharing the laughter and frustrations and burdens and joys of ministry together. I hope our church family realizes how special you all are. And if some day I have a new team in our new work, I pray they will be as competent, as committed, and as easy to work with as you have been.

Judy has awakened to enjoy the sunshine with me. She read this and cried (I know that's no surprise! But the tears are mine as well, an expression of our deep love for you). Coming to Donelson was a return home for Judy, but it has become home for her in new and deeper ways. She loves you and misses you, as do I.

We are praying for you all that God will continue to lead Donelson to follow Jesus in the ways of the kingdom.

We'll see you soon.

Love,
Rob and Judy